Thursday, November 24, 2005

If I cried on your shoulder would you hold it against me?

I made the basketball team!! This in itself has made me very happy, but for the next 2 weeks, my life is extremely hectic, what with work, basketball, and drama. I'll manage though. I always do. But anyway, that's not what I wanted to talk about on this post. Just to warn you, this is a couples rant, so if you don't like reading about this sort of thing, I will advise leaving now.

Anyways, here goes. This has been festering for a while under my skin.
I'm tired of couples. Not all of them are bad, but they get to be too much. Honestly. I don't want to see you kiss your boyfriend goodbye in the hallway at school. You're going to be separated for what? An hour of class? Horrors! I think you'll die from loneliness in that whole hour! And I'm tired of walking down the hallway and seeing pair after pair of people. Seriously, it's ridiculous. It's okay to stand beside your significant other, but I really don't enjoy standing beside people who are flirting and all giggly and being stupid all the time. It's just school. I mean, please flirt on your dates and stuff, not in front of everybody else. And it's fine to have friends that are dating, that's not a bad thing, and I don't mind it, but he doesn't have to be all you talk about. Every subject does not relate back to him. Another point, cuddling in public should not be allowed. It is okay to allow some space to separate you; you're not going to die. It would be nice to be able to talk to people without them getting distracted by their boyfriend/girlfriend coming up. I mean, I know you like their company better than mine, but we were having a conversation.
One more point, then I shall leave. SUPERFICIALITY. Possibly one of the most frustrating things in the world. Boyfriends are not requisite for life. You don't need a boyfriend/girlfriend just for the sake of having one, just for the sake of saying, "look who I'm dating". How exciting. Forgive me for not jumping with glee. Perhaps don't try so hard. Maybe one will come when you are ready, and he'll be attracted to you, not the facade you put on every day. This last sentence is a lesson I'm learning also. I want a boyfriend who I'm friends with, not a strained relationship. I think I'd rather be friends for a while first. I want him to be attracted to me for me, not for the way I look or dress or any front I may put on. I don't want a relationship that's 2 12-year-olds playing Romeo and Juliet. I want something with God in the middle of it, something that's serious, that I can put myself into and know that that special someone will also be putting himself into with equal something (the correct word has slipped my mind here). But that's all I've got to say right now.

Remember, hallowe'en never falls on a date other than October 31st.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

yeah, so im pretty sure that the power rangers rule. if anyone disagrees, they should straight up tell me, and i will battle them TO THE DEATH!!!!!!

Teri said...

I disagree. Bring it on.

Anonymous said...

To the owner of this blog:
I am the all mighty dragon zord. I am ran by Tommy the White Ranger. Do you honestly think that you even have a hope of defeating me? Because if so, you are wrong, and the price of being wrong will be your life.

Teri said...

I'm sorry, but I still disagree, and I still say bring it on. I think that I have a hope of defeating you and if I don't, well, all I've lost is life, something I'll have more of after death anyway. Thank you for the warning Tyson, aber I won't change my views. Now I know. Bring it on.